Its all tied in my opinion, Love, intimacy ,friendship and wanting to share a life. You cant have love without that. Seems I am wrong. Seems intimacy and friendship aren't about love at all. Seems love is all about who is in control of whom.
Well I say different and I guess I want a man who believes that sharing a life and love isn't about control or giving in. Its about mutual respect and learning that two people can love and be intimate and share a friendship and actually don't have to give up their independence and their individuality. I thought I had found that in him. I thought he had understood that in a way we were kindred spirits and that independence and individuality were important to me too. I guess I was wrong.